Real tantra
Imagine sitting naked, in a dark room, facing your partner. With no distractions.
You’re intimately aware of EVERYTHING.

Oh there are so many points of real tantra, but first, let us just cover off a few bits out housekeeping. This nod to a bit of real tantric literature will help when we come to answer your question about the point of real tantra.

Firstly, let’s get some definitions out of the way so we can truly understand real tantra.

What is real tantra?

There are hundreds of different perceptions of what real tantra is. Since tantra is mostly linked to sex it has a bad name. But, its sacred traditions are actually grounded in the real Vedas (Indian scripture and teachings via hinduism and some buddhism) and tantra sanskrit which is all concerned with connecting our mind, body and soul so that we enjoy a spiritual connection as one human.

This is also where yoga has its roots, hence why we see elements of tantric yoga. The idea of the tradition is that by switching our mind into a relaxed and ultimately spiritual state, we are able to be more conscious either in the act of tantra, yoga, or ideally throughout all the different elements of our lives. You can find out more about this here.

By switching our awareness, we are able to tap into the dormant energy centres in our body. These are known by different names, but simply, they are the chakras.

We can see how the whole history of getting in touch with every detail of yours and your partner’s being could end up with tantra only being associated with tantric sex, or tantric massage. Because tantra (the power of feeling) is AMAZING when it’s done properly.

During tantric massage we tap into our chakras, join our energy centres and boom!

Don’t believe us?

Imagine sitting naked and cross legged in a darkened room. The only thing you have to be aware of is your partner. Their breath, their touch, their voice whispering over you.

And this is just the start.

In short, during real tantra, you are aware of every tiny detail. You shiver at the power of their touch, electricity charges around your body from the brush of a finger, or the whisper of warm breath followed by cool. Your senses are alive in a way it’s almost impossible to feel during our busy lives which dull these senses in a bid for self protection. Our body can’t process stimuli in this heightened state when there is so much to process, So we cut it off and that artificial calm is like a holiday from life.

Every tiny movement in authentic tantra massage is significant. Tantra is an art and we instinctively feel tantra for a mighty inner power and the greatest glory.

You experience every minute sensation deep in your core as you tune into your partner and their slightest reactions to your touch. You desire them like nothing on earth, even though you have often only just met. Your spirit is connecting and the scientific workings that make this intensity such a powerful path mean that together you share a tantra love born from the moment of pure, uncluttered devotion and worship. Your body is involved in an exhibitionism you never thought possible of yourself and the liberation of letting loose with another in a private environment becomes a temple for lovers. Even though, during a real tantric massage you’re not having tantric sex, the power of freedom, of allowing goddess and god to come together spiritual union is wonderous.

Your level is way above what we’ve learned through our lives and we operate within the frames of instinct. As we allow ourselves to be carried in an anonymous whirl of drunken powers, we get a glimpse of the unique person we really are under our barriers of protection. There’s no instruction manual, no subject we need to excel in, other than letting go and allowing ourselves to connect with the touch of your tantric massage therapist and live in the moment of loves which are only as real as our pleasure needs. Right there and then.

I bet you’re already wondering just how highly stimulating that could be — are we right?

We hope so, because this slow weaving of energies during real tantric massage has got a bad rap as it’s become synonymous with untrained (usually) women, cavorting around without the training or experience to tap into these secret energy reserves that make the experience of real tantra so incredibly special and ends with a powerful orgasm born from an awakening of the mind-body connection.

What is tantra shastra?

When you’re having a real tantric massage, to the untrained individual, it feels as though there isn’t a lot going on. Sure, its intense to the point of mind blowing, but it’s not like your tantric massage therapist will sit there and run through what they’re crafting under the surface that makes this whole divine event feel so out of body.

There is in fact a lot going on. Tantra shastra is an entire system involving techniques to tap into and use the entire depth of your human consciousness to understand exactly what you need. And then deliver that for you.

What is tantra sexology?

Tantra sexology is the weaving together of our physical and emotional self. And then we do that with our partner during your tantric massage. It isn’t tantric sex, it’s way more powerful and pretty much every one of our clients who have been and experienced real tantra with us have all commented at the end of their first tantric experience that their tantric massage was better than sex. This is because of this weaving together of two humans by combining their energies and heightening their awareness.

What is tantra practice?

Tantra practice is the process of using the real tantra techniques and taking them with us into our daily lives. This could be to calm us, to improve our sex lives and to heal emotional scars.

There are practices which can awaken the tantra in you and that you’ll learn during the course of your tantra massage.

So, if you’re still wondering about what is the point of real tantra?, then let’s explain some of the real life health benefits.

When your heart is pumping like a crazy thing, then it’s not a great leap to understand that real tantra can increase your blood circulation and therefore an improved immune function. But, this is not only good for the heart, it can also help if you’re struggling to get or keep an erection.

The art of real tantra is about shutting off from real life, a little like you do in meditation, so that you can experience what your body is actually capable of. You may think that you can’t switch off, that your brain is too active or that you have too much going on to be able to not think about those important elements that keep your life ticking over. Wrong. You can. Because we will help you. All you need to bring is a mind that is open and willing to jump in feet first to your tantra practice and we’ll do the rest. And that is how you will leave feeling refreshed, relaxed and your lack of stress will improve your sleep.

The act of real tantra also helps with emotional as well as our physical problems. By having the best tantra massage you’re worshiping your body, but also uncovering real answers to some hard and deep buried questions. There’s a truth and honesty in bringing down our barriers and not allowing ourselves to be distracted from what we are capable of feeling. If you’re carrying guilt from anything in life, but particularly from bereavement, our sexuality or sexual abuse, then although it doesn’t sound like it on the surface, real tantra is a wonderful tonic in your journey to uncovering real answers and ultimately healing.

Real tantra is about worship you see. So, the slow, gentle strokes, the caressing, the perfect tantra love and the touching, all work together to help you understand that your body is just that. Yours. By switching off from the outside world, you’re able to let go of reality and just be. You experience your body for what it is, and this is how men and women enjoy the strongest orgasms of their life.

Female massage Romford
Yoni massage for women is available by a male therapist.

All our massages are based on tantric massage, but we understand that it can be nerve-wracking coming for the first time. This hinders your experience and there is a real chance that we could over promise and underdeliver by not giving you the right grounding. So, we start with a sensual massage which includes a lingam or yoni massage first and only when you are ready will we move onto tantric massage.

You can book an appointment by texting us on 07982 491392 anytime during the week and we’ll come back to you as soon as we’re free. Please don’t forget to state if you’re male or female, your ideal time that you’d like to book and whether this is for one hour or longer. Real tantra takes a minimum of two hours, but we can do the sensual massage in one hour or more.

All our massages are based on tantric massage, but we understand that it can be nerve-wracking coming for the first time. This hinders your experience and there is a real chance that we could over promise and underdeliver by not giving you the right grounding. So, we start with a sensual massage which includes a lingam or yoni massage first and only when you are ready will we move onto tantric massage. You can book an appointment by texting us on 07982 491392 anytime during the week and we’ll come back to you as soon as we’re free. Please don’t forget to state if you’re male or female, your ideal time that you’d like to book and whether this is for one hour or longer. Real tantra takes a minimum of two hours, but we can do the sensual massage in one hour or more.