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All things sensual

From the tantric experts
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Tantric therapy London

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Rosebud massage. I’ve never heard of that.

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Sexological Bodywork

Sexological Bodywork

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Sexological bodywork awakens sexual and erotic aspects of ourselves

Sexological bodywork is a pretty new term which describes the work that we do to improve the connection you have between your body and your mind.

It often confuses people when we talk like this, but here’s the thing. There is only one of you, one entity. And so, the idea that our mind and body should be aligned is actually not so unusual.

Sexological bodywork allows the sexual and erotic aspects of ourselves to awaken. Once they do this, they deepen. It’s all about shutting off your mind from the outside world and allowing your brain to connect with what is going on inside. This is where the tantra massage, or sensual massage comes in.

Why would you see a Sexological Bodyworker?

There’s a bunch of reasons, why men and women want to see a sexological bodyworker, but here are some of the most common:

  • If you’re unable to orgasm, it can help. It’s also great for premature ejaculation and difficulties getting or maintaining an erection
  • Perhaps you have anxiety or a trauma associated with sexual intimacy. Or have you lost your loved one and are struggling to move forward?
  • If you’re bored with your current sex life and need to feel that spark again.
  • Are you stuck in a pattern that is comfortable and do you want a new sexual experience, but you don’t want to cheat.
  • Your libido has changed and you want to fire it back up
  • A lot of people just want to learn how to experience more pleasure in their sexual and sensual lives. They may feel disconnected from their genitals and be looking to connect with touch again.
  • The above point can apply to women who have undergone a change, e.g. childbirth or eating disorder.
  • It’s not always easy to ask our loved one to adapt their natural style to please us. Perhaps you don’t actually know what to ask for.
  • One of the most basic human needs is to be touched. It’s not too much to ask.
  • Most people think they know how to masturbate, but do you really?
  • You just want to learn, and to have better sex. That’s fine too.

Does this mean we have sex?

No. Not on any level. Instead this is about teaching you to understand your body, to connect with it. And as a result to feel and experience the pleasures that may be passing you by.

Our sessions allow you to direct your own erotic development, access your personal arousal, and then to experience pleasure for pleasure’s sake. It’s truly enlightening. And invigorating.

To book your sexology bodywork session, book a sensual massage and be sure to give your therapist the full details of your situation when booking. To book, text, 07982 491392

Exotic massage for men

Exotic massage for men

Let’s put you in the moment, the moment when you’re experiencing your first exotic massage for men at Sensual massage Romford. So, lie back and relax.

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When soft hands touch you the shock is intense, like two icicles spearing you

You’ve entered the therapy room and it’s dark. Oddly dark. You have a feeling of unease. You’re looking forward to your exotic massage for men because somewhere deep inside the pit of your gut, you know that this is going to be good.

It’s already so different from the places you’ve been before.

The therapist is nice. And speaks English. Is English.

And you’re at ease.

Or you were. Until you removed your underwear and laid down. The place is totally silent. Except for the sensual music playing in the background. You focus on in on the breathing, the sound of a woman enjoying herself set to the erotic chords of tantric music.

You shout out. Tell your therapist you are ready. You’re totally unclothed. Unsheathed. Open to the world.

When the door opens the sound seems to echo around the intimate space. You don’t look up. You’ve been told not to and your instincts tell you much as you’re desperate to that this will spoil the tension which is already building. And you don’t want to break the spell.

So instead, you wait as you listen to bare feet padding around the room, trying to work out if that’s all that is naked. Other than you.

Your eyes are closed and the rest of your senses are on red alert. So when soft hands touch your back in two places the shock is intense, like two icicles spearing you, whipping away your breath and leaving your heart pumping at double speed.

Your head rushes as you’re instructed to breathe. Part of this exotic massage for men is based on tantra. You’ve heard about it before, thought it was a cheap quicky wrapped up as something delicious. You never even dreamed that so little could be so exquisite.

To book your exotic massage for men, text us today on 07982 491392.

What’s so special about special service massage?

What’s so special about special service massage?

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Everything you will ever need to know to learn the pleasures of your own body.

Special service massage. Is it sex?

Imagine lying face down. The soft hands of your sensual massage therapist glide over your skin with a sensuous touch which alights every single one of your nerve endings. Your tired body which only a few moments earlier had been lethargic from the strains of the day is instantly invigorated. A heat from the blood which had been lying dormant floods down from your core trickling to every extremity.And then all the stresses and strains of work and of family, evaporate as you allow yourself to float into the blissful innocence of a simple touch.

Skin on skin.

Nerves connecting.

Energy alighting.

With only a hint of temptation. The pressure builds. Your breathing deepens as your sensual massage therapist leans over you. You keep your head buried in the massage table, the head cradle hiding how you bite your lip as you sense rather than feel an immaculate touch. The divine intensity of the moment continues to build now obliterating all tasks on your to do list, all ideas of anything real outside of this special moment.

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Skin on skin. Nerves connecting. Energy alighting.

The special services of your massage therapist are simple, and yet so incredibly effective.

Who knew that massage therapy would be quite so liberating.You spread your legs a little wider, a silent beckoning of where you’re aching for the soft touch of hands to slip to next. Your breath catches as you wait, holding your breath to see whether your aching will be satiated by the special massage you’re losing yourself to.

Those extra special hands falter, you’re sure there’s a pause. And then, they’re gone. The smooth, agile stokes speeding up as they head away from the area.You shift your position, the pressure now all consuming. The hands. Those hands. They’re there again, specialist massage techniques, tempting and teasing you with possibilities. You release the breath you’ve been holding, allow it to float free from your throat and once again surrender to the subtle power of the liberation of an expert massage delivered by someone so totally in control.

You give up fighting,

begging isn’t attractive and you allow yourself instead to be at the mercy of your erotic massage therapist. You fall, fast, allowing all tension to release from your body, from your mind and this is only when you truly understand what beauty there is in the art of sensual touch.

This relaxing experience is a mind blowing wellness technique where stress drains from your system and in so doing allows your brain to work in a manner which is totally inexperienced in many of our stressful lives. Therapeutic touch doesn’t have to be about breaking down tight muscles, it can be done from the inside out.

When you leave, you hold yourself differently. Your vision is still blurry as you leave the darkened room and squint to adjust to the real world again. ‘Was that really only an hour or two?’ you ask yourself as you brush a hand through your wayward hair. You feel like a different person.

You feel like a different person.

And this is surely what special service massage is about. It’s about taking what you came in with and throwing it out, only keeping the good that you’ve buried for fear of losing control in life. But, what’s interesting is that when you surrender to a trained stranger’s touch, your inner self is unlocked and you release the pain and tension of the daily grind.

To book special service massage text 07982 491392 today. For more information on sensual massage services in Romford, Essex, check out this page. To go back to our original question, is special service massage sex? No. It’s better.

Tips. Book the right personal massage Essex.

Tips. Book the right personal massage Essex.

Are you interested in personal massage, but not sure who to call and where to go in Essex?

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It’s a tricky business finding a personal massage therapist in Essex. Standard joints are listed by Google under the same search terms as those who provide the erotic or sensual massage for which you’re looking. The only way to find out is often just to pick up the phone and make the call.

Massage therapy is a minefield, in Essex and anywhere else. There are people offering sports massage, massage therapists who are only interested in providing clean Essex wellness and then others at the other end of the scale who are more interested in getting you in and out, literally as fast as possible so they can move onto their next client whilst robbing you blind.


Why are you wasting everyone’s time whilst putting yourself in an embarrassing position? Those sites that are listed when you type in the search term, ‘personal massage Essex’ are only listed on Google because they have a ton of information on their website which tells you what they offer and how they offer it. Most will have prices on and so it’s easy for you to find exactly what you’re looking for in what will be less time than it takes someone to answer your call and listen to you as you stammer out your convoluted request about their services.

There’s no need for you to announce that you’re looking for a full body massage and wait for the audible sigh on the other end of the line as you realise you’ve called an Essex wellness centre by mistake. Oh, and our clients have told us that they thought deep tissue massage was an ‘all in’ service. Don’t be mistaken. Deep tissue massage is aggressive muscle work that will leave you limping for all the wrong reasons.

So, how do you find sensual massage in Essex without putting yourself through a tormenting game of cat and mouse?

You get what you pay for. So read.

You read the information that the massage parlours have provided. It will take all but a few minutes and then you can drop the therapist a quick text on 07982 491392 and arrange the exact personal massage that you want. But, here’s another tip. Don’t assume that a sensual massage, an exotic massage or even a naturist personal massage will end with sex. Usually it will end with a lingam massage, certainly at our premises as standard, but if ‘all the way’ isn’t listed on the site, then that’s not going to be part of the massage services.

If that’s what you’re looking for though, it might be worth you broadening your horizons because, our clients, who incidentally have been returning to us for the past ten years or so, have told us that the combination of our tantric training, professionalism and honed technique mean the lingam massage at Sensual massage Romford, is better than sex. 

Now, there’s a claim! 

That’s why our clients aren’t just based in Essex, but they travel from all over the UK — and the world — to see us. We have regular clients who live as far away as Toronto and Hong Kong. Some of our clients who live further afield used to live in the area and still make the effort to visit us when they are back in the area. Others visit for work and make a sensual massage with us in Romford a vital part of their trip.

Your privacy

Now, here’s the deal about your name. If you find the right sensual massage therapist, they’ll be established like we are for years) and they’ll be interested in the longevity of your professional relationship. They’re not about to go giving your name out to people, they won’t divulge your personal details or try and hook up on Facebook and they won’t rush over with a wild wave and broad smile if they see you out and about. Your privacy is as important to us as it is to you.

Your name

Many of our clients prefer to give a false name. And that’s fine. We know how private you are and that’s for good reason because not everyone is as scrupulous as we are at Sensual Massage Romford. However, it would be useful if you do give us your full name, if for no other reason that we can then call a doctor who can access your medical records if you fall sick. No-one needs to know why you were having a massage, or indeed that it was a more exotic massage style. But, if you’re sick, it would be good to be able to get you help.

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Worried about getting caught

It’s the same with parking locations. Sure, you might want to take care of your privacy by parking in a different area and walking around the corner, but how much time does it take to walk to your massage treatments as opposed to hopping out of the car and diving into the treatment rooms.

Of course, this does depend a lot on how much of a prominent location the personal massage therapy centre is in. But, if it’s tucked away as we are, you might be safer heading directly into the room from your car. If your’e in a quiet location it’s not like anyone will be passing.

The choice is yours.

So, however you decide to look for a sensual massage service, an erotic massage or a personal massage at least now you have a few points to help you decide who can give you the service you’re looking for whilst maintaining your privacy. To book, text
07982 491392 now.

Unsatisfied with sex

Unsatisfied with sex

Unsatisfied with sex? Want to reconnect with your partner?

There’s no need in this day and age to live a life where one partner (or both) is unsatisfied with sex.

And yet we hear this all the time.

You’re in a committed relationship with your partner. Whether that be a husband/ wife or recent partner, where literally everything else within your relationship is top notch, your sex life is suffering. And so because we love our partner, and we love everything else about the time we spend together, we put up with a less than acceptable sex life leaving us feeling unsatisfied with sex.

1. Cultures affect sexual behaviour.

This could be because you have different ways of approaching sex, and your sex life naturally, or it could be because some aspects are just off limits in certain cultures.

For instance, oral sex is off limits for African men. Asian women will often consider intimate touch to be taboo for so long until they are married that making the switch once they are in a committed relationship isn’t always as easy as flicking a switch.

2. Age differences and experience levels cause frustrations

If you’re with someone way less experienced than you it may seem like a great idea that you can teach them everything you need them to know about sex. The issue comes in when we quickly realise that sex isn’t a training session. That can be a bit of a passion killer to anyone’s sex lives. A little bit of self discovery is wonderful, but when it’s every time, we understand. It can be tough, and wind up leaving you being sexually unsatisfied.

3. Communication (or lack of) can create a rift the size of the Grand Canyon.

No-one wants to be the one to tell their partner that they’re not doing it right, that their best efforts are leaving us unsatisfied with their sex. We imagine being on the other end of the conversation receiving the message from someone we love that we they are leaving our sexual desire unsatisfied.

Or that we’re having unsatisfying sex with them.

It’s tough.

But, the depths of sex and intimacy are by nature incredibly personal and emotional that we need to find a way to link in our sex drive. We can’t expect it to be ok to live dissatisfied with sex for the rest of our lives. Eventually that wedge will grow.

Seeing a sex therapist as a couple isn’t always the way forward, perhaps one won’t go due to shame or being embarrassed, or sadly another doesn’t feel they are living with an issue. And so often times it comes down to you seeing the help and satisfaction outside of the relationship.


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We’re here to tell you that needing your sexual fulfillment is valid

And we’re here to tell you that this is fine.

You are allowed to have your personal emotions and as long as you have tried your best and you’re seeking help with the best of relationship intentions then we’re not going to judge you. Sometimes it’s simply impossible for another individual with their own hopes and fears to understand the depths of sex for another.

That doesn’t meant that your emotions are any less valid.And that’s what is great about the sensual massage that we offer in Romford, Essex. We don’t offer you sex. It’s simply not on the cards. Because we are trained and we know that people who are unsatisfied with sex life can often think that sex is the only answer.

It isn’t.

A deep sensual satisfaction is.

One where you discover pieces that you never knew about how your body works. One where you fall into the depths of the pleasure you can receive from a simple touch. And one where you can learn and use these skills at home to stimulate your flailing sex life with your partner so that neither one of you need live with an unsatisfying sex life any longer.

So for anyone who feels unsatisfied sexual tension and believes that unsatisfied sexual desire is something they need to live with, we’re here to tell you you’re wrong. Our trained tantra therapists can show you how to use your body and how to enjoy that of your partner. They will reconnect you with emotions you’ve buried, and allow you to discover sensations you’ve never felt. And then you can take this sensuous discovery to add health to relationships that may have been lying stagnant and untouched for years.

You don’t need to live within a relationship with your partner that has dysfunction at its core. Couples can be fully happy again, fulfilled and even study their sex life together in a new direction. Who knows what doors will open when you learn the answers to unlocking your partners inner self.

We don’t believe that a marriage should be stale struggle, that an orgasm should be shameful, off limits or unachievable. And our surprising tantra experts factor this into our sensual massage services leaving you, as a couple refreshed with a renewed and fulfilling interest in your combined sexual relations and inner desires.

To book text us on 07982 491392