Sensual foot massage

Sensual foot massage

Give, receive, or learn about sensual foot massage

It goes without saying that a foot massage is a massage of the foot. But, did you know, that it is one of the easiest things to turn into a sensual experience? This is because many people don’t know that there are multiple areas of their foot that are erogenous zones. It’s even possible to give someone an orgasm with one hand or with your thumb using a sensual foot massage technique.

What we offer:

We’ll massage your feet

If you’re looking to relax with a sensual foot massage, then you’re in the right place. You can lie back and enjoy your feet being pampered for an hour. Your experienced massage therapist will use specialist lotion or oil across the ball of the foot, under your toes, even the base of your ankle to massage the base and tops of the feet and stimulate arousal.

We’ll then finish this with an erotic lingam massage, again using oil or lotion.

You massage our feet

If your kink is to give the foot massage, then you may spend your slot giving a great massage of the feet to your therapist. Please note, this is not code for gradually going higher and seeing where you end up. The massage you give will be purely limited to massage of the feet and ankles.

With fifteen minutes to go, your therapist will then use a gentle pressure on your penis to finish your treatment with their hands via a lingam massage so you leave relieved.

We’ll teach you some sensual foot massage tricks

If you’d like to learn the techniques associated with giving a great foot massage, whether this be what pressure to use, locating erogenous zones and so on, we’ll guide you as you give your therapist a great massage of her feet.

We’ll cover which fingers to use to locate certain pressure points in the body easiest, and we’ll discuss which areas of the feet link to different parts of the body. For instance, if you’re wanting to relax someone who is tense, then you may what to use your thumbs on their big toe. We’ll show you how.

Many people suffer with a sore arch of their foot, and the pain release they can feel when you rub and hold this in the right way can open many doors. For their health and your deeper sexual arousal as you watch them physically loosen in front of your very eyes.

This isn’t just about holding and rubbing feet, There’s so much more to it. And luckily you’re in expert hands.

To book your first relaxing and sensual foot massage session today and reap the benefits, text us on 07982 491392

What is a naturist massage?

What is a naturist massage?

When you’re asking what is a naturist massage, it’s also important to understand a few key points. Because not all naturist massages are equal.

Here we’ll break down what each is and what naturist massage means for each. This will allow you to make an informed decision about whether you would like to book a professional tantric therapeutic massage with us, or to book one of the erotic massages offered by providers on directories.

Tantric Massage Therapy

Tantra and tantric massage are buzzwords. But who understands what they mean? It’s an intricate method of delving into ourselves where red is for sexual tantra and white is for self-discovery. So the term tantra is broad. And this is confusing.

As the many directories advertise tantra massage when they don’t even know what makes a massage tantric.

There are so many kinds of massage and it’s confusing knowing what it is you should choose. Intimate massage can be a special service that makes you feel amazing. Or it can fall flat. 

What is a Sensual Massage? 

Pleasure massages are ones where there is no muscular work, and the focus is on sensuality. We may refer these to as 

They’ll include hand relief, hand release or happy ending. These are all terms for the same thing. Ejaculation. 

These massages last between one or two hours. 

Any of the above pleasure massage will cover your full-body and finish with massage of your sexual organs/ genitals. The technical term for this is a lingam massage, although we can include this throughout the massage with the release at the end. The female equivalent is yoni massage.

The pleasure massages are relaxing experiences which allow sexual release in an environment where you feel comfortable and safe. These erotic massages are great for stress relief whilst being pampered in expert and safe hands.

Sensual massage does not include oral or penetrative sex.

Tantric Massage vs Sensual Massage 

Traditional tantric massage is a level up from sensual massage or erotic massage. Your therapist will have trained at a specialist school where they learnt tantric practices. They’ll pass these onto you.

We have done this training and have adapted our sensual massage experiences to include some tantra elements for your heightened enjoyment. We’ll open up energy flow, and therefore even the sensual massages that we offer take time. Tantra is a minimum of two hours although we understand that this is an enormous commitment for many people and so we offer a 1.5 hour option. It’s not as good though!

There is tantric sex, but this isn’t what is on offer in a tantric therapy experience. We’re working with your energy and healing practices to provide you an elevated level of intimacy and connection – and enjoyment from your body. We’ll activate energy flow that some people say is like being high. This natural and pure hedonistic pleasure doesn’t have the side effects of drugs.

Tantric massage will allow you to experience your sexuality in a brand new light. This will open up your mind to a new understanding of your nature — being spiritual and sensual. Tantra will also make you a better physical lover.

So back to our original question, what is a naturist massage?

For us, naturist massage means you are naked. Your therapist may or may not be naked, but because the massages we offer are mostly of a deeply sensual nature, we feel it is better if both you and your masseuse are completely naked for the duration of your treatment.

If you’re having a more therapeutic touch such as deep tissue with hand release, then because your session is about healing your muscles rather than your mind and soul, although you’re getting an orgasm at the end, the focus isn’t on sensuality. You will be naked for your massage, but your therapist will not.

What are the benefits to a naturist massage?

What you can expect varies by the different modalities. they allow your life force to flow in an authentic sensual environment. This nudist experience is liberating, giving you not only sexual relief and self-discovery but also some warm steps to enjoy with your partner.

Where are you based?

You can enjoy any of our naturist massages at our modern tantra space in Romford. This borders on Essex and East London.  If you’d like to know more about the techniques, there is a greater run down here. If you have questions, then you might want to check out our FAQ page which will give you immediate answers as we can’t always reply immediately to your text messages.

Naturist massage services

Naturist massage services

If you’re looking for professional Naturist massage services in London or Essex then we’ve got your covered. Based in Romford, we’re on the border of London and Essex and provide a whole range of Naturist massage services.

Our therapists are English, trained in tantra and professional throughout.

We ask the same of you.

What naturist massage services do you offer?

Sensual massage

This is the most popular of our naturist massage services. A minimum of one hour, the techniques used are based on tantra but don’t require the same time commitment. Consider this a mini tantra massage.

You and your therapist are both naked during this most erotic of sensual experiences. You’ll leave feeling like you’ve had time out from the real world.

Tantra massage

This is the ultimate of our naturist massage services that we offer. It is a minimum of 1.5 hours but to get the most out of your experience, you should really try and book 2 hours.

The process takes time but is a wonderful joy that is well worth it. The effects of a tantra massage will last for days and even weeks.

Both you and your therapist are naked during this elongated period of erotic massage. You’ll connect your mind and spirits during this sensual experience, working with breathing techniques to induce a deep state of connection.

Your tantric massage will be done on a specialist pad on ground rather than a massage table as with our other naturist massage services.

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Naturist naked massage

The naturist naked massage is much like the sensual massage. It encompasses gentle, sensual touch. Both you and your masseuse are naked throughout. This massage won’t work your muscles.

If you have knots that need therapy, then please book the deep tissue massage with hand release.

Ladies full massage

During this ladies full massage you can choose whether you are naked or not. So the choice is yours as to how you feel.

Generally our clients prefer to be naturist during this erotic massage experience even though it does not include a yoni massage (massage of female gentials)

Deep tissue massage with hand release

The deep tissue massage with hand release is the right option if you need some tight muscles working out. During the deep tissue massage with hand release, only you will be naturist. Your therapist will remain clothed.

The hand release at the end will be a lingam massage for men or yoni tantra massage for our females. This is an intense process of edging prior to release.

How do I book one of the Naturist massage services you offer?

You can text us on 07982 491392 and we’ll come back to you as soon as we’re free. We do take bookings on the day, please check our terms and conditions of booking and our FAQ’s page too.

We’re based in Romford on the border of Essex and London.

Massage hand release

Massage hand release

If you’ve typed in massage hand release to your phone or keypad, chances are you’re looking for a quick massage with the focus on hand relief. We’re not saying you’ve got that all wrong, but if you want the best ever hand relief moment of your life, then think about investing a little more time into the massage.

Here’s why massage hand release is good for you

When you have a massage the physiological effects are that it relaxes your muscles, but also your mind. Your heart rate slows as a result of the physical therapy and with that your blood pressure.

The stimulus that dance around your brain, distracting it from the pleasure of your body slowly ease under the gentle massaging pressure of your therapist’s hands and fingers. Gradually, as her hands stroke your body stress disappears like pulling overgrown ivy from a wall. 

What we’re left with is you. Laid bare. Totally naked from the cloak that stress masks us with.

The more you relax, the more the part of your brain that deals with sexual energy is able to connect to the relaxing motion of your tantric therapist. More time means your entire body can be included within the massage, from your foot and leg all the way to your wrist, fingers and thumb. 

And of course your pelvis. But, by the time we reach that area, you’ll be craving hand release.

This is where we start to build tension. But this time it’s sexual tension. One of craving where nothing else matters other than the heavy ache in your penis and the tight knot that is your testicles.

Hold tight, you’re close. This will now be the ride of your life.

You’ll think you’re about to climax. All the sensations will start. You’ll contract, your spine will tingle and your ears will buzz. 

But your therapist won’t release the trigger. Because you have time, your massage will continue to build your anticipation. Eventually, you’ll be on the edge and when that hand release comes boy will it be earth shattering. Your toes will curl and the relief will be emotional.

This sacred tantra bodywork is called a lingam massage. Sure, it’s massage hand release, but it’s also one of the most effective stress relievers available.

To book, text 07982 491392

What is sexual frustration, and what does it mean?

What is sexual frustration, and what does it mean?

Sexual frustration isn’t about not getting enough sex. It’s about not getting enough meaningful sexual interaction. 

What is sexual frustration?

Have you ever been in a relationship where you’re humping like rabbits. You’re literally at it every ten minutes. But you never feel satiated? 

That’s sexual frustration, and it’s likely because there’s some element of that sexual contact missing whether this be hugging and kissing, a general intimacy in your lovemaking or that you’re just not being taken to orgasm. We’ll explore this more below, but this agitation, anger and anxiety that you feel in these situations is the result of sexual frustration.

So see, we can be sexually frustrated even when we’re having sex. It’s just not the right type of sex. And this inability to meet our sexual desires and needs can lead to damaging psychological effects that we’ll go into later on in this article.

Causes of sexual frustration.

Here are a few causes that both women and men experience when the sex they’re getting, either with their partner or someone else, isn’t satisfying them.

Sex drive

One partner has a higher sex drive than the other. Both partners risk frustration in this complex situation because one isn’t satisfied and the other feels used. And both are valid points. Many of our clients visit us for this reason. The cause may be as simple as being after a baby, or it may be age and hormone related, so previous patterns have shifted. Or it could be that you have always been on different levels here where everything else in your relationship is tip top.

Intimacy levels

You’re not receiving the level of intimacy in a relationship that makes you feel wanted. Many of our clients tell us that they get sex, but it’s a quickie. It’s all there is time for with the kids.

The issue is that it’s a basic human need to feel skin on skin, to be wanted and needed. And we express that during love making not sex.

This can also happen where one person suffers a body image complex and so doesn’t want to expose themselves in the same way they previously were happy to.

Busy lives

A husband or wife may be busy running the family and be distracted from sex. It’s not that they don’t want it, but the idea doesn’t enter their head. They are too busy and then too tired. They don’t notice their sexual frustration, but their partner, who is out doing what they have always done, does.

Sexual dysfunction

If one of the people in the relationship is suffering with a sexual dysfunction disorder e.g. erectile dysfunction, this can lead to anger and resentment.

Often on the sides of both parties.

This is a classic way that sexual frustration manifests as lack of sex often spirals into an accepted pattern, as one or both parties don’t want to address the humiliation of the situation repeating.

Lack of desired sexual contact

You may not have the type of sexual contact that you desire. This could be as simple as a prostate massage being the thing that really satisfies you, but your partner doesn’t want to partake. It could be deeper desires and fantasies that you don’t even want to speak about, let alone play out in reality.

woman masturbating herself due to sexual frustration

Climaxing is an issue

Relationships are tricky things.

And climaxing too quickly or not at all can be a common bone of contention. This can lead to not wanting to have sex with that person, even though you are sexually stimulated. Being taken half way to orgasm then dropped down can be hugely sexually frustrating.


Following on from the above point, long-distance relationships can be a huge issue with sexual frustration. Many of our clients are in this situation. They don’t want to cheat on their partner, but they do need to be satisfied in a way that only another person can do.

Masturbation whilst useful can often lead to more sexual frustration than it solves in the long run as it gets the body read for sex, which doesn’t follow through. This is where tantra and sensual massage can be a huge help because edging is a wonderful way to enjoy sensual stimulation all the way through to fulfilment.

It’s not that easy to do this on your own. We tend to tip ourselves over the orgasm precipice way too fast.

How many stories have you heard of straight guys in prison turning gay? Just think about it.


Here’s another interesting point. Religion. You’d be surprised at how many of our clients come to us because in their religion sex before marriage is forbidden.

But people are human and they need their physical needs met, but their religion and that of their partner prevents it within their societies.

Some philosophers have even studied the link between extremist Muslim violence and suicide bombers dying for honour and their sexual frustration. There is apparently a scientific link between these murderous feelings and radical traits.

Other forms of self deprivation

Likewise, we’ve all heard about athletes not being able to ‘engage’ before a big event — I guess you could argue that sport is a type of religion for some. And people who are gay, but haven’t yet come out for whatever reason, are another example very often of groups of people who don’t engage in fulfilling sexual activity. Whether this is out of choice or not is not important, simply put, you are still suffering from frustration.

A person’s unwillingness to explore their body could also be a reason for this. It might be your partner not ‘letting loose’ in which case it’s difficult to read the signs and bring them to an explosive orgasm in the way that would make you feel good about yourself. If it’s you, then you’re not engaging with your body in the best possible way and therefore you’re unlikely to ever be anything but sexually frustrated. You simply don’t know how to be anything else if you haven’t yet discovered what makes you tingle to your toes.

Let’s change tack for a moment. Have you ever worked with someone who you are sexually attracted to? It can drive you insane, can’t it. You’re not supposed to have that intimate connection with someone you work with, it can literally screw up your career. And so the attraction and the frustration builds. Society expects us to behave within certain limits.

Societal expectations

Look at the Romans, they were all banging anything that moved. They didn’t care if you were male or female. Orgies were an acceptable pastime. But today, that’s not acceptable. Why is that? Surely we still have the same urges we always did.

Signs you are sexually frustrated.


If you easily blow up. Your annoyance level is extreme or you are easily distracted, this change in your base level personality could be a sign your sexuality isn’t being met. This is because you don’t have an outlet for the stress of daily life. When we have sex, it releases chemicals which relax us to our bones. Without that daily life continues to top up the pot, but it’s not being emptied and we become hot headed.


If you have problems falling asleep and while you’re in that state you experience that little niggle in your groin… Yep, this is a sign you’re not getting enough of the right sexual interaction to meet your emotional as well as physical needs. On top of this, sleep deprivation then prompts sexual frustration so you’re on a hiding to nothing here. Our advice, if you don’t want to come and see us, then at least exercise. You can do this hard and fast like cardio, or slow like yoga. This will suit your personality just like your sexual preference.

Constant fantasy

You think about sex all the time. Seriously, it becomes a fantasy land that you escape to. But you’re still not getting any. This could be part of your problem though, we’re not living in the movies and your fantasy is the movie in your head. Don’t mistake reality and the quality of your dreams. If you do you’ll fast become a prisoner of your own frustrations.

Lack of interest

You might not be interested in masturbating anymore. This is because the accumulated levels of stress in your body lead to you not being able to engage with self satisfaction. This is just the same as if you’re stressed from work.


If you aren’t satisfied after sex, even if you do all the right things. It just doesn’t work out. The issue could be either you or your partner. If you think it’s your partner, then you need to speak with them. But, please, be gentle. Continuing to pretend you’re enjoying sex or any kind of sensual stimulation when you aren’t will lead to a lifetime of no change. And that means no satisfaction. And we already know this leads to rage, and even anxiety and depression further down the line.

How to overcome sexual dissatisfaction and associated frustration.

The way to do this depends on the cause. The usual thing we’d always suggest though is talk to your partner about this. If you can’t because the issue is something you don’t want to accept about yourself, then perhaps this is the time that you make a visit to us. 

If the problem is because you’ve grown complacent with your partner, or there are body image issues etc, then change it up. Don’t just head to the marriage bed where you’ve had previous failures. It doesn’t set a great tone.

You have the power to book a hotel, change up to the spare room, or even have a date night before you retire to the same place. But whatever you do, if something is going to change, then you have to change something between the pair of you for that to happen.

And don’t focus on intercourse. Focus on the love you share between you. Every therapist will tell you the rest will follow when you are comfortable around each other again.

If you have guilt over something you have done or thought about, then push this to one side. You are with your partner at this point in time. Embrace them and this situation, the past will only ever be that. It can’t be changed.

If sex drive is an issue, then boost it. Play games. Married therapy will always push for new experiences to be the solution. A little like we said about the place earlier, mix up the routine. It could be a fast track solution that will easily influence the success of your future sex life. 

To book a sensual massage and relieve your sexual frustration text us today.

Why we love, and why we cheat.

Why we love, and why we cheat.

Firstly, before we look at why we cheat, let’s examine what is it to love?

The last 45 years of psychological research has established some commonalities that happen when you fall in love.

1. A person takes on special meaning, the world has a new centre in the person that you have fallen in love with. Love is blind and you can easily ignore the things that you don’t like about that person.

2. You become sexually possessive of them.

3. An intense craving to be around that particular person. You want to spend any and every part of your life with them.

4. You have a motivation towards this person, which becomes an obsession. You would die for that person without a second thought.

A research piece studied the same amount of people who were in requited love and unrequited love. The study involved the participants looking at a photograph of their loved one against when they weren’t. 

Here are the results:

Romantic love is a physical response, it’s not an emotion. It is spurred from the wanting and craving part of the mind that is a driving force a little like what makes us strive for a work promotion.

This driver is more powerful than the desire for sex. Because this is only an emotion. And emotions only last a maximum of 90 seconds. Think about it this way, we die for love but if we’re rejected sexually from someone we brush it off and move forward.

This could explain why we cheat, Or even why people become serial cheaters. We’ve all heard men justify to their wives that ‘it didn’t mean anything.’ This may be true. But to a woman who has fallen foul to point two above, she is sexually possessive and is not at all bothered about whether the sexual interaction was meaningful.

This could also account for a similar response from a man who is outraged at an emotional affair his wife is having. In this situation, it’s likely that nothing physical has happened, but because of point one, the emotional possessiveness is in play.

What are the recent reasons for cheating?

When we talk about cheating most people think about a men. It’s how our brains are wired, but they are cheating with someone. In the traditional line up of a relationship comprising male and female, we’re then looking at a man running off for a non-meaningful sexual encounter with a woman who is more predisposed to falling in love. This imbalance can cause issues and is why men have, throughout history, found professional women for their philanderings. Because surviving infidelity is tricky at best.

Here are the two most profound social trends that have an impact on lust, romantic love and deep attachment to a partner. And hence on why cheating is so much more accessible.

Women moving into the workforce.

Everywhere in the world women are moving into the job market and are closing the gap between men; economically, health wise and education wise. Men and women are different, our brains are different. 

Women have a better verbal ability to men

,Finding the right words is a powerful force. 54% of American writers are women because they are imaginative, can plan through web thinking and can put them into complex patterns and see outcomes.

Men focus more, they move in a step-by-step thinking pattern.

This creates a collaborative society where women feel more able to reciprocate where they would in the past have deferred male advances.

In short, women are starting to express their sexuality. Women also start sooner and have more partners. They have kids later and are generally more free. This means that men have a choice of people to sleep with.

We’re also seeing a rise in romantic love, people will not marry anymore if they are not ‘in love’. Arranged marriages are on their decline. It is thought that marriage may become more stable.

There is an ageing population, some research suggests middle age should be 85 because it’s not until we get to this age that there’s something really something wrong with us. And the older we get, the less likely you are to divorce. But do you still need the chemical hit associated with the rush of new love.

Is this also a contributing factor inot why we cheat?

Women have never been more educated, interesting, and able to be a good partner. 

If this is the case, why do we cheat?


An orgasm creates a dopamine spike which can genuinely cause the person to fall in love, or at least feel that deep attachment for someone else. And these can work hand in hand with our deep attachment to our long-term partner. In short, it is chemically possible to be in love with more than one person at the same time. This is natural for us.

This is where the problems start.

If we think of a quickie, then that doesn’t seem emotionally complicated. Except that, as we’ve discovered, having an orgasm can stimulate the chemicals that make us fall in love. And who wants their marriage risking for the sake of a quickie?

If you’re attracted to a person, do you start out cheating, without wanting to fall in love. But, then you naturally enter the proverbial triangle we have talked about above.

We know now from research it is possible to be in love with more than one person at the same time. Research has shown this. Whilst it may all seem great at the start, does it ever stay that way? Messy!

Many people end up on antidepressants. And that has a complication all of its own.

The role of antidepressants in love and whether we cheat.

Antidepressants add drugs, serotonin enhancing chemicals into our system, which suppress the dopamine circuit.

Dopamine is associated with romantic love. Antidepressants also kill your sex drive which kills orgasm and in turn, kills the flood of positive chemicals associated with attachment.

When you tamper with the brain in one place, physics means it alters another. It’s impossible not to. And so we end up living in a world without love.

Without love, we have even less reason not to cheat.

Why do you fall in love with one person rather than another?

Timing is important when falling in love, proximity too, but also mysteriousness because this elevates dopamine. This could explain why people cheat.

Likewise if you go off and do something unique with someone, this also elevates dopamine. This is how affairs can lead to issues, and why it’s important to see a professional such as having a massage with hand relief — it gives the physical release without the emotional complications. In the long run it’s a lot cheaper too.

Here’s a story about love to finish with.

One grad student in love with another. The love was not returned. Knowing the above how about doing something unique with a person can help to improve your chances of love. The guy asked the girl to go on a rickshaw ride with him. She obliged, loved it. And after it was finished, she threw up her hands and said, “That was wonderful. And wasn’t the rickshaw driver handsome.”