But does a sensual relationship need to be with your partner? Ideally, yes. But nothing is written in stone. We are sensual in life, but we are dangerously deprived of touch. We are not closely connected with others, but rather than approach this and gain what we physically and emotionally need, we think it is inappropriate and to lock ourselves in boxes, physically separating ourselves from others.
Touch activates oxytocin, a binding hormone. The mother’s love for her child is established, as well as affection among lovers.
One does not have enough tact, it does not produce this hormone. Many studies have shown that lack of contact causes children to develop emotionally and physically. However, we deprive ourselves of touch.
We’ve completely lost the understanding of the sexy. We put it in a box, sex is a great modern contraindication, anything that can be associated with it is immediately marked as incorrect.
Yeah, sensuality can lead to sex, like a dinner can. But sensuality itself is not sexy. You can talk to your friends, family and absolutely strangers, for whom you do not feel any desire.
Sex is your second round of energy, the nervous chakra. It is associated with water and taste. Kissing, bathing and flowing are properties of water. It’s about your desires and happiness, it’s about what you want to feel good.
It is unconditional love, without objects, of a deep and intimate connection. Although it still gives you a lot of pleasure, it mixes one with another being, giving the highest desires, not animists. Touch and open the heart together.
We have enough libido, but we are hungry for a sensual relationship.
Relearning to open your body to give and receive touch is a beautiful and healing practice. You are a sensual presence, you need to touch — so express it! Stroke each other. Sexuality is a language that allows you to express your deep emotions better than any word will do.
Add more sensuality to your relationships, and no longer worry about passions disappearing. If you continue to connect to your heart level in your partner, continue to provide you with your touch and love, maintain a strong connection on the physical, emotional and spiritual level.
That’s why I’m a great supporter of sensual massage. If this isn’t possible with your partner, then book a sensual massage from a professional trained tantra therapist. It is a beautiful practice that combines sensuality and sensuality perfect for each couple. If we all do a little sensual massage, we will heal a lot of broken relationships.
To book your sensual massage by a trained tantric expert, text 07982 491392
Life is like that, we lose ourselves and then all of a sudden, without warning, we realise we need a sensual awakening.
When we think of a sensual awakening, we will often think of the sexual spirit. The part of ourselves that has been buried under a collection of responsibility, money worries and a task based existence.
But, our entire sensory system is the doorway to our soul. We can awaken these by taking time for ourselves. Have you ever shut yourself off in a bath and with the comfort of the closed door, you hear the bubbles pop and smell the oils you have used. Where as when you hurriedly plopped yourself in, before you shut off from the outside world, none of these were anything you even noticed. You were all consumed with the process of making sure the water was high enough and of the correct temperature, that the taps turned off just at the right time and that we don’t slip and break a limb while climbing in.
Sensual awakening can start with any small part of life and the skills are easy to develop, if you understand. Just take the time and notice how the steam from the kettle forms beautiful patterns before dissipating into the air.
Then use this skill set to awaken your sensual spirit and to allow yourself to feel again. Sensual awakening is about healing our mind, body and spirit so that you can nurture yourself and dive deep into the intimacy that you crave by our very human existence.
Try a sensual massage for the ultimate relaxation, sensual stimulation and new world experiences.
If you need some help with this, our sensual massage will take you all the way to awakening your sensual pleasures faster than you ever thought possible. The act of leaving your usual environment and stepping into another, fantasy world will help this. And then the expert touch of your tantra trained therapist will not only set you at ease with their meditative skills, but awaken your body so that you sense every small detail about your experience.
Together your bodies will awaken, your spirits will join and you will once again feel where you thought there was no hope. You’ll explore the joy of being touched; different textures, speeds and breaths. You’ll fall into this world where anything and everything is possible, where you experience a life you’ve never had. And you’ll dare to believe that it could happen again. Because it can.
We’ll work with your breath and connect the way your body works on a physical level with your spiritual. After all, it’s our mind that helps us enjoy the tiniest of sensations by highlighting their effects.
Your sensual awakening will begin with the awakening of each cell. Your tantra therapist will use a tantalising touch, connecting energies so that as each cell in your body awakens, you’ll feel more alive as an entity.
If you’re a male, your tantra therapist will be female, but her Goddess may come through in many different manifestations. If you need gentle and nurturing, you’ll receive this. If you need dominant and strong, then this will be what you get. Or it may be all or somewhere between. The tantalising touch will be whatever best awakens your body in the moment and healing energy will flow between you both. This is where tantra love is born.
What do I need to do?
Nothing. Lie back and relax. Open your heart and your mind to your inner sensual being and allow the pleasure to flow.
The rest is down to us. We’ll create a safe place, a dark box where no-one else can enter so that you have the freedom to explore your true sensual self in complete privacy. This is where you can trust and enjoy the erotic you, connect with your deepest desires, all while being free of shame and guilt. This is about you setting yourself loose from the oppression of our natural and wild nature, and about us touching who we are under the layers of conformity.
As you open up and begin to the perfection in everything that we are, you’ll allow yourself to also be open to a more orgasmic life — a life where we enjoy the simple pleasures to their maximum. Together you and your sensual massage therapist will move past old wounds, forward into a safe world, where we are as strong as our connections with love. You’ll automatically find that you walk taller, and are more awake in life as you then pass through life with the presence that you desire in your heart.
These sessions create dynamic, life changing experiences.
In short, you’ll reconnect your body with your soul. And in casting away the stresses of everyday living and allowing yourself to drift into the safety of a loving parallel universe, you’ll enjoy the benefits of tantra touch and ultimately sensual awakening.
This is where you discover the pleasures of being you.
The art of sensual massage can save a relationship. One of the ways that we can feel emotionally intimate with our partner is through physical intimacy.
But sometimes, we simply run out of ideas.The sensual massage is all about making love, with every part of our body other than through the actual act of making love. This isn’t about focussing on the goal of the orgasm, moreover, it’s about enjoying the sensations of getting there. And the bonus is, that when we do, the build up has been so incredible, the emotions so intense, that our relief is that much greater. And with way more power.
Sensual massage is also a great alternative if you’re abstaining from sex. For instance, if you’re on a break, or wanting to spice things up a bit. Or, you could simply be single and looking to enhance your understanding of the power and depth of just how intense you can feel the tiniest of sensations.
The art of a great sensual massage is to open up energy channels. This allow a natural vitality to flow more freely and in so doing, you’ll be amazed at just how relaxing and invigorating even the slightest, most gentle of touches can be.If you’re looking to heal an emotional rift, then having experienced a mind blowing sensual massage can mean that you’re more able to deliver that to your partner.
You can sit silently and connect again without the need for words that come out wrong, or pure sex that just doesn’t do enough to put you on the road towards cleansing the past.
You don’t need fancy oils, although you can get hold of edible ones nowadays and some wonderful smelling ones.
But, here’s the thing.
This is about you and your partner getting closer.
So how about just keeping it simple and being about the two of you without the need for additional bits and pieces.
You just need you. And your heart. And the ability to carve out some time where you can just enjoy ‘being’ together. If you can muster up a sensual music playlist on spotify, then that’s all the better. We’d recommend this one here.
It’s amazing the power that a slow touch, without being dampened down by oils and lubricants can have. Just take your time, wandering over your partner’s body. You’ll find that as you work, you’ll start to experience them in a new way again.
A sensual veil will wrap the two of you in a languid moment of fresh discovery and as your partner reacts, so will you. You’ll become more in tune to each other, to the curves of a body you thought you knew inside out and of the way a breath can move you with its purest whisper.
As you progress, you may want to pick up a silk blouse that your partner has removed, or experience the touch of leather against skin. But wait. Don’t jump into this. Do it once your nerves are on fire and you’re desperate to experience more.
We hear it all the time. But, have you ever had a lingam massage by an experienced tantric therapist?
If not. Then read on. You have a lot to learn. And you’re still to experience the most incredible handjob.
So tell me about this incredible handjob
If you’re looking for an incredible handjob and you’re in Romford, Essex area then you’re in the right place. Sure, we can tell you how to do it, but the trick with a great lingam massage, (which incidentally is the massage of your male genital area) is that you can’t really do this on your own.
That’s because, we edge. We push you right to your limits and then just as the pressure builds, we stop. Your heart is racing, your balls are tight, and you’re weeping to be released.
It’s only when you settle down again that we once again start to move with a mix of different strokes which are meant to push your heart and your cock to the limit.
There are different ways we can deliver an incredible handjob to a man, but the whole ethos of a lingam massage is that the penis is to be worshipped. The intensity of a lingam massage is unlike any other handjob you’ll have ever experienced, regardless of how incredible you may think it was. By the end of it, you’ll be in a haze of horny passion with tons of electric sensations shooting around your guy parts. You’ll be hard, harder than you’ve ever been, you’ll ache and beg for release.
This isn’t about you being able to cum multiple times. With a lingam massage you can have multiple orgasms, but that doesn’t mean that you need to cum more than once. By building up the pressure, and taking you and your cock to the brink of that incredible moment before releasing the pressure and allowing you to settle back down again, the wave of pleasure from our handjobs builds in intensity.
Our beautiful mature milf therapist is trained and experienced in tantra, so she knows how to give an incredible handjob. Which is why we can be confident in our claim that she knows how to work your dick to give you the maximum pleasure ride and the hottest sensual experience of your entire life. This isn’t like anything you will have ever seen on a porn site, this is real life, incredibly intense sexy masturbation by a quality high end lady who demands your respect.
You can book an appointment by texting 07982 491392 with details of your ideal time and date. Please note, appointments are for a minimum of one hour due to the slow nature of this incredible handjob. We don’t exchange pictures, this is for clients who are serious about making a booking for a lingam massage only. You’re not coming to see a babe who you can push around into giving you more than you’ve booked, you won’t get oral or blowjob, you won’t get sex, and you won’t get a selection of mutual massage options. And there are certainly no amateur homemade movies being filmed. Regardless of how much money you leave on the table.
What you will get is to discover just how powerful an orgasm can be with literally the most incredible handjob you will have experienced. You’ll have a fun time because your cougar tantric therapist will totally make your toes curl as she will guide you in and out of exotic waves of pleasure with her smooth strokes. You’ll experience the sensation of tantra love, you’ll feel like you’ve made a friend at the end as you’ve shared the most intimate moment of your life to date. And you’ll fantasise about just how soon you can return for a second session.
We want our clients to share their experiences with their friends, to invite them along to experience the skills of this sexiest of experiences. But, not many do. They prefer to keep this private, savouring their time as a source of private pleasure.
This isn’t about you coming to a place where you can select from a series of brunette or blonde girls to give you a hand job. You’re making a confirmed booking with a delightful professional tantric massage therapist for a wonderful enlightening experience that will blow your mind and your respect of her is a must. She’s not looking for a boyfriend, she isn’t mobile, you need to come to her in Romford, Essex. We also don’t do same sex lingam massage (gay). If you’re a male you’ll get a female tantra masseuse for your incredible handjob. xxx
Oh there are so many points of real tantra, but first, let us just cover off a few bits out housekeeping. This nod to a bit of real tantric literature will help when we come to answer your question about the point of real tantra.
Firstly, let’s get some definitions out of the way so we can truly understand real tantra.
What is real tantra?
There are hundreds of different perceptions of what real tantra is. Since tantra is mostly linked to sex it has a bad name. But, its sacred traditions are actually grounded in the real Vedas (Indian scripture and teachings via hinduism and some buddhism) and tantra sanskrit which is all concerned with connecting our mind, body and soul so that we enjoy a spiritual connection as one human.
This is also where yoga has its roots, hence why we see elements of tantric yoga. The idea of the tradition is that by switching our mind into a relaxed and ultimately spiritual state, we are able to be more conscious either in the act of tantra, yoga, or ideally throughout all the different elements of our lives. You can find out more about this here.
By switching our awareness, we are able to tap into the dormant energy centres in our body. These are known by different names, but simply, they are the chakras.
We can see how the whole history of getting in touch with every detail of yours and your partner’s being could end up with tantra only being associated with tantric sex, or tantric massage. Because tantra (the power of feeling) is AMAZING when it’s done properly.
During tantric massage we tap into our chakras, join our energy centres and boom!
Don’t believe us?
Imagine sitting naked and cross legged in a darkened room. The only thing you have to be aware of is your partner. Their breath, their touch, their voice whispering over you.
And this is just the start.
In short, during real tantra, you are aware of every tiny detail. You shiver at the power of their touch, electricity charges around your body from the brush of a finger, or the whisper of warm breath followed by cool. Your senses are alive in a way it’s almost impossible to feel during our busy lives which dull these senses in a bid for self protection. Our body can’t process stimuli in this heightened state when there is so much to process, So we cut it off and that artificial calm is like a holiday from life.
Every tiny movement in authentic tantra massage is significant. Tantra is an art and we instinctively feel tantra for a mighty inner power and the greatest glory.
You experience every minute sensation deep in your core as you tune into your partner and their slightest reactions to your touch. You desire them like nothing on earth, even though you have often only just met. Your spirit is connecting and the scientific workings that make this intensity such a powerful path mean that together you share a tantra love born from the moment of pure, uncluttered devotion and worship. Your body is involved in an exhibitionism you never thought possible of yourself and the liberation of letting loose with another in a private environment becomes a temple for lovers. Even though, during a real tantric massage you’re not having tantric sex, the power of freedom, of allowing goddess and god to come together spiritual union is wonderous.
Your level is way above what we’ve learned through our lives and we operate within the frames of instinct. As we allow ourselves to be carried in an anonymous whirl of drunken powers, we get a glimpse of the unique person we really are under our barriers of protection. There’s no instruction manual, no subject we need to excel in, other than letting go and allowing ourselves to connect with the touch of your tantric massage therapist and live in the moment of loves which are only as real as our pleasure needs. Right there and then.
I bet you’re already wondering just how highly stimulating that could be — are we right?
We hope so, because this slow weaving of energies during real tantric massage has got a bad rap as it’s become synonymous with untrained (usually) women, cavorting around without the training or experience to tap into these secret energy reserves that make the experience of real tantra so incredibly special and ends with a powerful orgasm born from an awakening of the mind-body connection.
What is tantra shastra?
When you’re having a real tantric massage, to the untrained individual, it feels as though there isn’t a lot going on. Sure, its intense to the point of mind blowing, but it’s not like your tantric massage therapist will sit there and run through what they’re crafting under the surface that makes this whole divine event feel so out of body.
There is in fact a lot going on. Tantra shastra is an entire system involving techniques to tap into and use the entire depth of your human consciousness to understand exactly what you need. And then deliver that for you.
What is tantra sexology?
Tantra sexology is the weaving together of our physical and emotional self. And then we do that with our partner during your tantric massage. It isn’t tantric sex, it’s way more powerful and pretty much every one of our clients who have been and experienced real tantra with us have all commented at the end of their first tantric experience that their tantric massage was better than sex. This is because of this weaving together of two humans by combining their energies and heightening their awareness.
What is tantra practice?
Tantra practice is the process of using the real tantra techniques and taking them with us into our daily lives. This could be to calm us, to improve our sex lives and to heal emotional scars.
There are practices which can awaken the tantra in you and that you’ll learn during the course of your tantra massage.
So, if you’re still wondering about what is the point of real tantra?, then let’s explain some of the real life health benefits.
When your heart is pumping like a crazy thing, then it’s not a great leap to understand that real tantra can increase your blood circulation and therefore an improved immune function. But, this is not only good for the heart, it can also help if you’re struggling to get or keep an erection.
The art of real tantra is about shutting off from real life, a little like you do in meditation, so that you can experience what your body is actually capable of. You may think that you can’t switch off, that your brain is too active or that you have too much going on to be able to not think about those important elements that keep your life ticking over. Wrong. You can. Because we will help you. All you need to bring is a mind that is open and willing to jump in feet first to your tantra practice and we’ll do the rest. And that is how you will leave feeling refreshed, relaxed and your lack of stress will improve your sleep.
The act of real tantra also helps with emotional as well as our physical problems. By having the best tantra massage you’re worshiping your body, but also uncovering real answers to some hard and deep buried questions. There’s a truth and honesty in bringing down our barriers and not allowing ourselves to be distracted from what we are capable of feeling. If you’re carrying guilt from anything in life, but particularly from bereavement, our sexuality or sexual abuse, then although it doesn’t sound like it on the surface, real tantra is a wonderful tonic in your journey to uncovering real answers and ultimately healing.
Real tantra is about worship you see. So, the slow, gentle strokes, the caressing, the perfect tantra love and the touching, all work together to help you understand that your body is just that. Yours. By switching off from the outside world, you’re able to let go of reality and just be. You experience your body for what it is, and this is how men and women enjoy the strongest orgasms of their life.
All our massages are based on tantric massage, but we understand that it can be nerve-wracking coming for the first time. This hinders your experience and there is a real chance that we could over promise and underdeliver by not giving you the right grounding. So, we start with a sensual massage which includes a lingam or yoni massage first and only when you are ready will we move onto tantric massage.
You can book an appointment by texting us on 07982 491392 anytime during the week and we’ll come back to you as soon as we’re free. Please don’t forget to state if you’re male or female, your ideal time that you’d like to book and whether this is for one hour or longer. Real tantra takes a minimum of two hours, but we can do the sensual massage in one hour or more.
All our massages are based on tantric massage, but we understand that it can be nerve-wracking coming for the first time. This hinders your experience and there is a real chance that we could over promise and underdeliver by not giving you the right grounding. So, we start with a sensual massage which includes a lingam or yoni massage first and only when you are ready will we move onto tantric massage. You can book an appointment by texting us on 07982 491392 anytime during the week and we’ll come back to you as soon as we’re free. Please don’t forget to state if you’re male or female, your ideal time that you’d like to book and whether this is for one hour or longer. Real tantra takes a minimum of two hours, but we can do the sensual massage in one hour or more.